Jackie Schmitt
Sorry to hear that life is so difficult for you. I understand that you are an older gentleman and I hope things turn around for you.
I didn’t go back to read my posts, but I am sure that I put something in there about how far away the matches seem to be. Sorry if that upset you. But for clarification, I would not have a problem with a twenty minute drive. It’s just that I have found BR to have a combination of qualities that I find interesting: technology, competition, endless variables, and maybe most importantly, you believe you will always do better if…… It has become a passion and my escape from reality,,, and even displaced golf. You would have to know me to appreciate the gravity of that one. I am sure that my life is not as challenging as yours, but I built a business unit of 5 plants across the country, with over 1,000 employees. Given the collapse of the entire construction and banking sector, I now get to close plants and give pink slips to crying men and single mothers, all the while telling then how good a job they did and how much our company and myself appreciate their past efforts.. Now I find out today, I get to do more of this,,, all in the name of the almighty Quarterly Earnings Statement. Again, others have issues to deal with, life balancing exercises, but I am sure they not close to the persecution you live with daily.
Needless to say, I do extensive travel. Hence my desire to spend at least some time with my two children and wonderful wife.
Now I understood where the big matches were, but was surprised at the lack of other BR matches in the region. Seems to be a few gear heads on this forum so I used the racing analogy with feeder systems. Might not work, may have been tried before, but I don’t think bringing it up would qualify at abrasive unless someone already has some preexisting issue.
As for your final statement about non-BR ppl giving advice and how it annoys you. Be it personal or business, it is often thought to be advantageous to have a third party/outsider, give things a look and offer a few opinions. Again, I don’t know Joe, but this whole thread started with him seeking ideas from others. He didn’t say only “good ideas” or ask that site members still seeking their first registered match abstain from commenting. Actually I think there is an entire industry built around this service and it is called Consultation.
I was raised to work hard, be humble, and to never forget that I can learn something from a priest, a sinner, the most financially successful of people, as well as the person that cleans toilets for a living. In business I surround myself with people that are very different from myself in every way. Yes, it leads to irritation, annoyance, and ego clashing but still gets the best ideas up on the table. I might not be the “newbie” that provides the nugget that Jeff is looking for, but at least I will try to help.
Mark
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