Jerry,
I challenged a good friend who had been very resistant to using a gage and calipers to set his FL die multiple times by feel, saving a sized case from each setting to be measured. After he saw hat he was all over the place on headspace, he made some gages. The feel method requires is a die that is correct for the chamber in question; many are not, and their owners clueless about the need to determine if it is, and how to do so. On the internet, we speak to the world.
Lets look at the basics the ordinary and occasional handloader has. They have a reloading manual. The Hornady manual says to set the ram all the way to the top and screw the sizing die down to bump the shell holder. What if the shell holder is brand A and the die is Brand B?
The Sierra manual says, for non rimmed cases, "if the die is out of adjustment and sizes these cases improperly, the cases will not seat properly in the chamber, proper adjustment of the die is important"! For rimmed cases, let the rim control headspace. Ridiculous!
The Nosler manual, under Full Length Resizing says," the entire surface of the case, including the shoulder, is set back to APPROXIMATE original dimensions of the factory case"! This is precision??
Need I go on through Lyman, Barnes, Speer, etc??
Boyd, I'll agree that using a barrel shoulder tool made by the same chambering reamer as that chamber may be more accurate than the feel method would be for someone that is inexperienced in gaging and especially if they are using a "spring-loaded" not stripped bolt. How many of these occasional reloaders shooting factory guns are going to have such a tool as the barrel shoulder tool??
But on the other side of accurate headspace gaging, that same someone, using a single contact point gage like the Hornady LNL (Stony Point-Whitetail) gage and a cheap set of dial calipers will get a no better measurement that doing the spring-loaded bolt method.