As an engineer, a Senior Manufacturing Engineer of 45 years, a guy who designs the manufacturing process, and IMO, there probably isn't a magic torque value when installing a benchrest barrel to a benchrest quality action.
Consider-the mating shoulders of the barrel and the action need to be true surfaces and exactly perpendicular to their rotational axis. Their mating threads need to be of the exact same pitch and profile. i.e. most all rifle actions today have 60 degree Vee threads. These need to be of exactly 60 degrees and their pitch (TPI-threads per inch) need to match exactly. (On some CNC one could, for example, program a 18.05 TPI instead of an 18 TPI.
If these mating surfaces, shoulders and thread profile and pitch, match exactly and are lubed before installation, probably as little as 25 LB/FT would suffice. As to too much torque, I doubt if, in hand tightening, there could be too much. Note too, these mating surfaces need to be properly lubed before the installation is undertaken. Greg Tannel of Gretan Gunsmithing keeps a lathe set up to "uninstall' barrels that were not lubed and those mating surfaces galled and stuck.
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