Rusty. The reason I asked the questions was to get some advice from those who know what they are talking about, so I,m not stuck with an unsuitable reamer as you said.
A previous reamer I got ground for target application from Dave Kiff had a throat .002" over bullet diameter, so I thought I would get some second opinions.
I have asked for a 1.30 leade angle, but I,m not too concerned about throat length or angle as I can get it throated out with a separate throating reamer if need be to suit.
Jim S, about .0005 over bullet diameter was what I was thinking as well. As you say, any tighter might cause issues with no gain.