Paul,
Evidently your experience with the sport has been different than mine. While I may not always agree with all of them on every point of discussion, virtually all of the men and women who compete at Visalia, and every one else that I have met in the sport, would easily fit into the categories of ladies and gentlemen. Posters on web sites, are another matter. Sometimes they become more aggressive behind their keyboards than they might in person.
As to the OPs question, I have no idea, because I have not had it happen to me, and because I don't know anybody that it has happened to. Beyond that, the information is a bit sketchy.
Boyd