Couple of things to remember. The first is that is is, by in large, the length of the bullet that is most critical, not its weight. The second is that atmospheric conditions are a significant factor, if you are pushing things. A bullet on the edge may be stable in 90-degree weather at 1,000 feet elevation, and not stable in 30-degree weather at sea level.
That being said, around an 80-grain bullet. An 80-grain VLD (which would apt to be longer) might not be stable.