Hey, Waylon, no joke, that..................
is REALLY good to hear!! I have a friend whose daughter was growing up, I first saw her when she was nine, she came along late in their lives. He always worked any run, and any condition that paid some more $$$, he always thought more money was the answer....I told him, "They want YOU, not the money." And he NEVER had any time. I kept telling him, "Hey, you ain't getting any younger.......and neither IS SHE. Cut back a bit and spend more time with her, six, seven more years, she'll be gone." She hit 12-14, I guess, he couldn't get her to go. I told him, "She's gone now, she's still living with you, but she's unavailable now." Now, he has the time; he still works, but he's done the things he should have done, 6-7 years ago. However, she's away at school.
I know another guy, and his granddaughter would sit on his knee at three, and help with the reloading chores. Then when she was 10, he moved about 50 miles away, and her father hasn't done anything with her, and she's getting her learner's permit, so, she'll be lost, too.
Most people have no idea what they're doing. They fail to realize that involvement with the shooting sports produces better scholars (I forget where I read that.) Its rare that you have a problem with children that are raised around guns turning out "bad" or getting into trouble with guns. And, if you raise a girl right, around guns, she will likely not wind up abused, sexually assaulted, or kidnapped and killed. Because her legacy has made her a survivor, a survivor because she knew the lay of the land long before a threat came her way.
I have told some of my friends that have daughters and granddaughters, "You NEED to spend some time with her and teaching her to shoot; because if you don't, and something happens to her......how will you ever forgive yourself??" In some cases it worked, and those have come back and told me they thought about that a LOT, then did something about it. They also said they've never had such a good time, or such a meaningful time with their family.
(And it kinda irks me, the way politicians want to take those possibilities away, with no thought, or CARE, at the consequences.)
Some fathers? Well....some......well, you know...