OK, this is from my limited experience.
IME you can generally squeeze DOWN as much as three "caliber steps" (ie from say 30 to .257) in a single pass using NEW brass.
IME doing anything up or down using fired brass requires annealing.
IME going more than three calber steps requires you anneal for the next pass.
IME split necks normally are the result uf necking UP. Necking down results in collapse and wrinkles, not splits.
IME brass work-hardens when you move it. You move it ONCE for the big moves, say from 30 down to .257. The second move down to 6mm will require annealing.
IME an STP or cam break-in lube lube or even 90wt gear oil is effective lubricant for large moves......trick is to look for a lube that's so tenacious that when you dip your finger in it you can make a "strings." Some of the other exotic lubes like "Power Plus" and such fall into this category. Sticky, messy stinky. Can't wipe it off .......... wear gloves type of messy.
IME sizing down in steps like one half of the neck at a time offers some real advantages for necking down without diddling all off sidewards. A real caseforming set has all sorts of sizes of bushings to be swapped and switched. You switch them out as you size and each SECOND move you anneal....
Clear as mud??
Dunno as I've helped but I tried!
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