Another Take
Shooters who are involved in Benchrest are more than likely competitive by nature. Many have what are called 'class "A" personalities', in the civilian world, they are more likely than not a "Boss", used to being in charge, and used to having the final say on what ever matter is presented.
One of the problems is that many of these very same people can lack the neccessary 'people skills' to carry on a conversation such as what we encounter on Web Sites such as this.
Many of us are used to dealing with people on regular basis in our Business World, you have to develop the communication skills that allow you to present your suggestions in such a manner as to not alienate the very people that you are trying to either win over, or explain things too.
At my shop, we have a perfect example of this. My oldest brother is one of the smartest people I know, certainly more so than I. We have worked together for our entire adult life, and in that time, we have all learned that we need to keep him from discussing things with Customer to a minimum. Simply put, he comes accross as crass, and unfriendly.
Regardless of how well our work is performed, if the customer simply does not like you, it will cost you in the end. You have to develop the people skills that allow you to convey ideas while instilling confidence in the person who will be writing the checks.
This is not the old "if you can't dazzle them with your brilliance, then baffle them with bullsh-t" thing. It is the ability to discuss important items of interest while instilling in the person you are talking too a complete sense of confidence that you do indeed know what you are talking about, and more so, what you are doing.
If you simply have to get the last word in at all times, or ignorance offends you, then you are better off staying off of sites such as this. All you will do, sooner or later, is show some character flaws that you probably would have rather kept a secret, ......jackie